Strap-On Play: Your First Time Guide (Part 2)

So, you're ready to explore strap-on sex? Awesome! It's a thrilling way to spice things up in the bedroom. But before you dive headfirst into the Kama Sutra, remember that your first few times with a strap-on will likely involve some trial and error.

1. Positions: Start Simple

Think of your first few times with a strap-on like learning to ride a bike – you don't jump straight into a BMX park. Stick with classic positions that feel comfortable and give you some wiggle room to adjust.

Missionary: A classic for a reason! It allows for easy adjustments and lets you both get a feel for the sensation.

All Fours: This gives you excellent control and allows your partner to easily adjust their angle.

Partner on Top: Let your partner take the reins! It's a great way for them to experience different sensations and explore what feels good.

2. Don't Sweat the Aesthetics

We get it – you want to look your best. But trust us, focusing on how you look will only distract you. Some positions might not be the most graceful, and that's perfectly okay! Prioritize pleasure and comfort over aesthetics. Besides, confidence is the sexiest outfit you can wear.

3. Communication is Key

Open and honest communication is crucial for any sexual encounter, but it's especially important when using a new toy.

Check In: "Does this feel good?", "Can I go deeper?", "A little to the left, maybe?" – Ask your partner how it feels throughout the experience.

Give Feedback: Let your partner know what you enjoy and what you'd like to try next.

Slow and Steady: Start slow and gradually increase the intensity as you both get more comfortable.

4. Think Outside the Box

While penetration is a major part of strap-on play, don't limit yourself!

Oral Sex: Strap-Ons offer unique opportunities for oral play.

Edge Control: Experiment with teasing and edging to build anticipation.

Shallowing: Entering just a little bit, to stimulate those specific nerve endings causing mind-blowing sensations. 

Just make sure you follow best hygiene practices when you experiment. Most importantly: If you're going to switch, let's say from anus to mouth, wash the dildo, change condoms, or swap out the dildo entirely.

5. Embrace the Awkwardness

Things might feel a little awkward or silly at first, and that's perfectly normal! Laugh it off, embrace the learning curve, and remember that the rewards far outweigh any initial awkwardness.

Strap-on sex is an exciting journey of self-discovery and shared pleasure. So relax, have fun, and enjoy the ride!

 

Tips for Making it Even Better:

Gear Up for Glory: Choose a strap-on harness that fits comfortably and a toy that's perfect for the occasion. A quality harness and toy will ensure your experience is coming out on top.

Lube is Your Love: Don't skimp on the lubricant! Plenty of slippery goodness is essential for comfortable and pleasurable play.

Set the Mood: Create an atmosphere that excites both of you. Dim the lights, light some candles, put on some sexy music, or whatever tickles your fancy, and let the vibes flow.

Most Importantly: Have Fun! Experiment, explore, and don't be afraid to try new things. The goal is to discover what feels amazing for both of you.

I hope this guide helps you unleash your inner sex god/goddess!